Showing posts with label delhi gang rape. Show all posts
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Thursday, May 2, 2013

Unresolved Mysteries …



News is the communication of selected information on current events which is presented by print, broadcast, Internet, or word of mouth to a third-party or mass audience. In contrast news nowadays is a piece of story or a nonfiction thread that can make the reader go dumb. Like the series of current affairs that is making me speechlessly dumb. News meets a mixture of social, civic, personally-enriching, and work-related needs in people’s lives. True…but for me news is sadly disturbing piece of information that makes you think “Hello !!!  Are we living in Kalyug”. Kaliyug-The "Age of Downfall", is the fourth stage of the world development that we are currently in. As the corruption gradually developed wider in the earlier stages. This stage is the climax stage when the world finally meets a judgment day at the end of it as said in Hindu Scriptures. It's not known when the end comes, but it's believed that we still have a long way to go. At the end of KalYuga, it is believed that a new order of a peaceful global society will be established. i will be happy if a new non violent, calm and a civilized culture will take birth. 

Past few months’ series of news bulletins that were deemed as 'BREAKING NEWS' have broken my heart again and again. I don’t know or I’ll rather say…I can’t trust if one man can be kind to another just for no reason at all. So the New Year itself started with the death of Nirbhaya. We said goodbye to a flame of hope and humanity.  I was aghast with what Nirbhaya went through, her torture and pain. Finally with her passing away I thought maybe now she will be harmless and at peace. The reek of her anguish & suffering was still in the air that I spot news of 5 year old being raped…not only raped but GANG RAPED!  I read the headlines and question myself are we humans or have opted to live like cannibals. So much for sentences and punishments being the talk of the town, and here we go again with sexual assaults. Are we not scared at all...? Are we desensitized to such an extent that we as in the public make a mistake which is inconsolable to any degree. None the less, our authorities are busy indeed busy making laws and decrees as never even in our nightmares we had thought of us humans to attempt rape and puncture the vagina’s of girls(girls here comprise of any element of female fraternity be it a 5 year old, a college goer or even a lady reaching her menopause) for momentary pleasures.

Ek thi Daayan. The film released just a few days back. News and media have almost made a mother Daayan. I am talking of the much unclear anonymity behind Aarushi’s murder case. According to the CBI it was a cold blooded murder that too by her parents. They have applied simple math here. 4 people were present in the house during time of the murder, 2 are dead… 2 dead and two alive…that gives you an answer to the 2 unfortunately living have to be the murderers. Being a mother, how can I believe something this filthy to be true? And if it is… this filth is going to increase day by day. It has Nupur, Aarushi’s mother portrayed as a Daayan and her father Rajesh a Kasaai-a Butcher. These two have been convicted of slaying their own daughter for their personal interests.  A massacre that has slaughtered esteem & identity of the Talwar’s to a big level. 

Lastly and I hope the least , Sarabjit met his end early morning today.  For me he too has attained moksha & peace only by his death. Since 1990, he was battling with the assumptions of being an intruder to Pakistan according to Pakistan's intelligence services, and according to his own intelligence he was just passerby who accidently crossed home soil in the influence of alcohol and was given a new birth of a spy by the Pak authorities.  Even if we assume that if he was a spy why didn’t our authorities do something for our ‘Agent Vinod’ rotting in jail and longing to be with his family for 23 long years? He was captured as Manjit Singh and died in that name too.  After his demise when the drama is over why debate on giving him national honor at his funeral and giftng him matrydom? Will that bring back the lost fatherhood for his daughters? Will that retrieve the criticism his family must have gone through these years. Will it bring back the sanity for Sarabjit’s village men to think that our neighboring country blamed for so many grey cases may even turn out to be a nation of nice hearted and fair people?  There is only a single answer to all the above questions…. No no noo!!!

I slept over all these news to dream of a small sequence. I see a round table conference …there is huge table placed with four chairs against one huge chair on the other side. There are clouds in shades of white, silver & blue all over. On the one huge seat against the 4 small seats is a wise, white robed man seated. He carries a colossal book on his desk which he fills in with a feathered pen and ink. His four subjects seated in front are in the order of their dismissal from earth. Aarushi, next seat is Nirbhaya, next to her is the 5 year old and then the latest entrant Sarabjit. The wise man who is kindly interrogating the four is filling information in the book which is title as “Unresolved Mysteries Volume 2013-10K”. What a puzzle. If I could only know what must have been the truth, what must have climaxed that time of their demise…Would that change anything intime today? Would I know who killed Aarushi, was Sarabjit really Manjit Singh? What horrible exchange of words must have taken for the rapists to torment Nirbhaya to death, and what led to a Man’s mind for him to quench his bodily thirst by entering into a 5 year olds tender body.Knowing the anwers I would not be any different from those who know the resolve to these secrets but are mum becauuse of pressure & media hypes.

And so...all my questions remain unanswered and left to be resolved....but another grave quention now....    is 'BY WHOM'???

Monday, February 18, 2013

Nirbhaya : Our tipping point

In the recent times two extreme brutalities have clogged up our minds & newspapers. Both are equally disgusting as well as disrespectful to human race.  I am talking about the Delhi gang rape case & the beheading of our Indian soldiers. We blame our neighboring country of being brutal, inhuman and merciless in their approach towards relations over line of control. How inhuman can we call ourselves when a minor and his friends, rape a girl and then torment her to near death.  Blood and antagonism can still be expected on a battleground, but cruelty & violence in an organized environment cannot be expected.  The news bounces that enemy soldiers who carried out the beheading were rewarded prize money for their act of enmity. To me similarly, the accused who is a minor is rewarded his freedom buy terming him as a ‘juvenile’ who cannot be punished for his aggressiveness which might include raping a girl, attempting to kill her & inserting a rod in her vagina. Ouch!!!….while typing this…my heart beat shoots up…I feel goose bumps and can only imagine the atrocity Nirbhaya might have gone through that cold winter night in Delhi. Still according to our judiciary system that poor chap is a minor and should not be punished!!!

What has happened of Nirbhaya and her life is very sad.  There are people of different stature and authority who gave their opinions about this sad incident and the ways Nirbhaya could have escaped that night. Amongst many is a statement of a heightened spiritual guru who quotes "Only five-six people are not the culprits. The girl is as guilty as her rapists... She should have called the culprits brothers and begged before them to stop... This could have saved her dignity and life. Can one hand clap? I don't think so”. Apart from this he even mentioned that she should have recited the ‘Gayatri Mantra’ to avert the barbaric encounter that night.  In what frame of mind is this man in? Let us call upon the Guru in a gathering of angry women and the family members of Nirbhaya’s family who are irritated & frustrated with what life has offered them and bereaved them off,  take a finger long metal nail and plant it in his nose until he starts bleeding. Ask him to call us his brother, sister, master….anything that he could think of us and even let him recite the hanuman chalisa, the gayatri mantra and any sankat mochan shlokas. Do you think the aggravated mob would stop ???....If it was for me…..I would not STOP! Gang rape accused are mentally ill. This kind of petty or moralistic coaxing hardly affects their sadistic behavior. Sorry Nirbhaya…I regret having Dharam gurus like him who can quote anything for mere publicity. Please be in peace wherever you are now for you are no more in this untamed harsh world.


I have lived in the NCR for 4 years with  my husband. In the initial 6 months I understood that it’s not safe for women to be out late. It is not the question of why not the women can be out???...When I know that in jungle the beasts and uncertainty both are out to its peak, why not take precaution and stay safe. After all it is our own security. I would like my womenfolk to carry small daggers, black pepper sprays and a lot of vigilance. Other sad thing associated with rape is morality. If a girl is raped and still survives…why does she become a model of unmoral values? Why is she disassociated from a community, why is she given a second glance, why is seen as white pigeon amongst the other black pigeons. We as a society should help her find peace and live like a normal human being. She was a victim who now has all the rights to live freely and with her head held high. When by mistake a cloth falls down in a dirty puddle, we wash it, soak it and dry it in the air and continue wearing it as it is clean. Likewise should a rape victim be treated. While citing my views on issues like this…I would even like to say for me the men who have certain desires and fulfill their thirst for sex by visiting sex workers by paying them are much better off than men who just quench their thirst of unfulfilled desires by raping innocent girls and ruining their lives. “Seedhi baat no bakwaas!!!”


These days there is a very common trend of showing that we are a part of your grief for that reason we go light a candle, wear white clothes and become a part of an Andolan. I want to ask those people who have lit candles and walked the many andolans against injustice ….especially with passing away of Nirbhaya just before the New Year…how many of you did not celebrate New Year’s night. How many of you did not party, did not drink and did not wear fancy clothes. Honest confession, I also cooked good food, had a nice time with my family & friends. My point is that…by walking in andolans or by lighting candles…does not serve any intention. We have to bring the change. We have to practice protection for ourselves. We should try hard enough to be a good citizen. We have to be the one by our ways & methods, who can actually have the other women folk literally keep the name ‘Nirbhaya’….the fearless.                

Let us be the change we want to see.

We are sorry Nirbhaya that we lost you. Rest in peace. You are now safe.

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